It’s not them, its you.
Are you constantly attracting the wrong type of people in your life?
Are you living the same relationship drama over and over again with different actors?
The hard truth is that it is the dead weight of your past relationships and associated beliefs.
The good news is you are not alone.
We are all stuck in that loop time to time. The bad news is; it’s not them it’s you. You need to have ‘the talk ‘ with your past. You need to change your old beliefs about yourself, about others and about relationships.
Let’s face it: they are not working for you anymore.
After you realize and stop clinging on to dated beliefs, you will see the miraculous change in your relationships. Ok, it’s not magic, it’s not a miracle...it is basic science. Our believes affect our way of talk, way of walk, basically our whole life. Because our subconscious wants to be right.
If you feel like you don’t deserve a good relationship your subconscious will work to prove you right. If you believe that everybody cheats, then trust me, you will find the biggest cheat in a crowded bar to flirt with.
But there is a nice and easy way to fix this. Like every recovery you need to diagnose and you need to identify your infected area.
1- Write down what was wrong in your old relationships, be honest to yourself, no one else will read this. How did you feel in those relationships, what did you believe about yourself? That is your infected area.
2- Now write down what would it be if you didnt believe those things, what would change? How would you act?
3- Now the fun part; write down what you want from a perfect partner, go wild, don’t limit yourself...be sassy and remember no one will read this.
4- Write down what your perfect relationship would look like and feel like.
5- Write down what can you give to that kind of relationship.
Did you write it all? Now I want you to close your eyes and imagine how would it feel being in that type of relationship. Feel it, sense it, see it. Enjoy your time, enjoy all the details.
Now all you need to do is allow yourself to attract your dream partner. Be open to the miracles and opportunities.
And as a small bonus; burn that piece of paper that you wrote all the old toxic beliefs on (point number 1).
They are not your beliefs any more.
Life Editing Coach holds Visualisation workshops every Monday at 6pm at Stour Space, Hackney Wick, London, E3 2PA.
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